Ambition

Have you ever had that junction in life where you have to decide.  That one turning point where every decision could alter your life? I've been getting questions about what I plan to do after this.  What if my answer is everything?

After some soul searching Ive come to realise I want so much out of life that sometimes I feel life cant satisfy me.  Is this too much? What is too much?   As they said everything comes with a price  and to acieve great heights theres to be great sacrifices.  Am I capable of such a  sacrifice tho? Its not going to be easy thats for sure.  But then again all the great people did it what makes them any different than me then?  

The point is I already know what I want out of life.  I know what I want to be Im just not sure if I can go the distance.
At one point I want to travel to see the world and all the slpendour people speak of it.  Since Im part of this planet I think I deserve to marvel at it while I still can.  To not be attached jumping around from place to place exploring new advantures yup thats me.
 Then theres another side :To be a meds student to memorise all those dieseases bacteria life processes sounds like fun. The late overtime hours in a hospital earning big bucks.  Hahs.
It sounds so easy getting a 4.0 CGPA getting into Uni and living  your dream.'  Study hard' they say its all worth it.  But  is it?  What if after all this I still end up going for masscom wouldn't  it all be a waste?  Sure Im doing what  I love but all this hard work would be a waste.  Then again i guess this is where God steps in.  Our God is so much bigger than life and yet in times like this we often leave him out  forgetting that hes just waiting for us to call on him.  We just neglect him.

So how do you decide between being a contribution to the world,  getting recognition,  status, respect, and doing something that makes you happy,  something thats you,  thats so effortless working feels like play.  Most people would say thats an easy question.  Just go withthe one you love most.  But if it were you.  Would you give up fame,  respect,  money,  recognition all for something people would look at and secretly pity you?

I think Ive reached a point of fck society for now.  Dont worry its only temporary.  Just until i get through this 6 months of hell in matrics.  After that,  who knows,  we'll  see.  Im leaving all up to God now :)

Night Changes

Aint It funny how life never really turns out the way we expect it to be? 2015 is almost over considering September is ending and to be honest I never would have pictured things would turn out the way it did. Many of you have been asking me why I never updated my blog, and truth be told the only answer I can finally give would be that , maybe somehow, by not blogging about it, things wouldnt seem true. I know Im in denial but then........

To be honest, Life has taught me much more in these past months than it did for my past 17 years of existence. You could say that 2015 has been more like a disaster year for me. There were so many changes and they all had to come all at once. First off, lets see mom retired so we moved to another state where my parents bought a house there away from Penang from my friends from everything I called home. Complete Desolution.

 Then,  I graduated High school meaning I am to attend college or lower six. My choice would have been lower six but.....since I would rather be in upper 6 in Penang and my parents already moved meaning I have no place to stay in penang, I went for Matrics. Yup. I signed myself a warrant to hell. No doubt I met some people who opened my eyes to life, they were interesting people, yet theres  still this hole in your heart that never really fills up when your with people you grew up with. That feeling of comfort and security. Going to matrics , I've started seeing the world in a new light. Its sad that my idea of humanity is completely altered. It shook me off my innocence that people would look out for you or that  people are doing it cause they care. When in truth, over there it's so realistic whereby nothing is done unless it benefits them. Its all ambition, fame and out shining each other. If this were school I think I would still survive cause I get to leave matrics at matrics and relax after school hours. But no. Its Matrics where after class hours you're still in hell and theres no break from it unless its mid sem break. Even that Matrics still haunts us with holiday homeworks and assignments promising to affect our fragile CGPAs. Will you give us a break already?!?

Next, you would think oh well how bad can it get? OH hahaha I was so wrong to question that. Remind me never to ever ask for the worst. Cause soon after I went to Matrics I lost my closest friend whom I happen to be very attached to. At that time I was still settling in and maybe  I guess I got too caught up trying to settle myself I forgot about him. He got annoyed at me somehow, and we havent been talking ever since. Its almost 4 months since we spoke, Why am I even counting? Its not supposed to matter. Thing is I did try to solve things after I got my shit together, but I guess it was too late. He didnt want to explain, just shut me out completely. I know we're living different lives but still, what kind of person ends a friendship with:

 " We're going our separate ways it would be better if you stop forcing a conversation cause its gona be more awkward"

LIKE DAFUQ. You dont shut your best friend out , completely stop talking to them and treating them like complete stranger and then replacing them with other people while rubbing it in their faces with no explainations whatsoever. WHAT KIND OF FRIEND IS THAT?
I never thought someone like him could ever do something like this. Honestly. And to me of all persons. There you just wrecked me and tore whatever's left of my tattered heart into dust. Are you happy? Whats worse is that there's so many reminders of him everywhere. HALF OF MY ROOM is filled with the things he gave me. Christmas presents, birthday presents, souveniers. He was sweet like that. I cant even wear my dresses cause every dress ever worth wearing was worn with him. Now all I wear are leggings and oversized tees. My parents think im a potatoe sack.
I dont know I just give up trying to understand people anymore.

But then from all this mess I think the one thing I really learned from life this year is that, true friends are the ones who are there for you in your darkest, they wouldnt mind hearing you cry over the phone no matter how far apart you are or how long you guys will end up talking.And it doesnt matter how long you havent met each other cause when you do, Its like you never left in the first place. And thats REMEDY to the soul. Remedy indeed.

I am gratful that in all this ship wreck, I had some pretty awesome people like my two awesome Baes M and H to back me up. For all those weekend calls they gave while I was alone in campus rotting depressingly. I dont know what I would do without them.

Life was really hard on me this year I supposee, but I did learn a lot. Was the pain worth it? Was it necessary? I dont know, and I dont want to find out. I know things wont be the same again but we cant determine what happened and we sure as hell cant change it. So do I carry on as if nothing happened? Perhaps. But how do I when Everything happened. So here you have it Eunice Catherine Jane Andrews, a lil shattered, a lot tattered, older and harder than before. Goodbye childish innocence, Reality hits.