To every good there is a bad, and with that comes Beauty. Im not saying beauty is a bad thing. But honestly, How many girls have gone all the way just to hear someone tell them they are beautiful?
Girls Listen up! You are all beautiful every single one of you and you don't need people to tell you that. Its the difference in your features that makes you uniquely you. So why go and throw it all away? I am sure make up is a good way to enhance our features, I mean which girl doesn't like makeup?
In these recent months I've noticed how girls go all out to change from their wardrobe to even the way they behave just so a guy would tell them they are beautiful. My heart really dropped when I see cases such as these. Its true, we are all here hoping to be loved and admired but it doesnt mean you have to SEEK ATTENTION in the most drastic ways. For example :
1. Flirting shamelessly with every guy in the room. ( Just so you know this will not get a guy to call you beautiful but rather a cheap )
2. being needy and telling yourself every guy has a crush on you (Seriously? you're not the only girl on the planet.)
3. Creating "DRAMAS" with your girlfriends and then trying to look like a victim so guys would comfort you. (Sorry you're just driving yourself to hell. Sooner or later your "guys" are gona see through you)
4. Breaking a string of hearts that you have no feelings for. (If you dont like them leave them alone and save them the tears)
5. Posting half nude pictures of yourself online. ( Im not mentioning names but that would only boost your career in the porn industry)
6. Going for one night stands with random strangers at parties. ( Do you really want to be doing IT with a guy that doesnt know your name or the fact that he doesnt love you at all?)
7. Changing your face structure with plastic surgery. ( Natural Beauty is the best. If he doesn't like you the way you are, he doesnt deserve you. It's not like you can change your face everytime the relationship doesnt work now can you?)
As they say seven is the number of completeness, I think I've completed what I have to say. From the bottom of my heart, I know it isn't easy to love ourselves at times, but if we don't who will? We are all diamonds in the rough, it just takes the right person to see it.
Almost everyone of us dreamed of getting the limelight. No matter how hard you try to deny it, you have secretly schemed, hoped whatever you wanna call it. Its purely normal to want to get noticed. I know many of my friends love getting noticed, some of them live just for the fame.
But after years of heart breaks and dissapointments, I find that Im the girl thats secretly hoping to be noticed namely by her crush. Unfortunately, my life isnt much of a fairy tale and I never get noticed by my crush. Or maybe it's cause I conseal it so well. But time and again I keep asking myself, until when will I be this girl?
I mean it's only a crush right? And how long will it last? Afterall after awhile this will only be a passing feeling...... right?
But still, it hurts..... I am afterall only human..... To see him and secretly dreaming for that happily ever after HAH! more like a joke it'll ever be. Cause deep down, I know he'll never be mine and we can never be together cause he likes someone else.
Sometimes, I get the feeling that I'm not good enough for him, or Im just beneath him to even talk to him. Thats how he makes me feel. Although I feel nervous and awkward around him I get annoyed at how he makes me feel about myself. So thats called mixed feelings huh?
I guess its part of the growing pains. Gosh I hate this so much. When will the nightmare end? I guess no one knows .......
But after years of heart breaks and dissapointments, I find that Im the girl thats secretly hoping to be noticed namely by her crush. Unfortunately, my life isnt much of a fairy tale and I never get noticed by my crush. Or maybe it's cause I conseal it so well. But time and again I keep asking myself, until when will I be this girl?
I mean it's only a crush right? And how long will it last? Afterall after awhile this will only be a passing feeling...... right?
But still, it hurts..... I am afterall only human..... To see him and secretly dreaming for that happily ever after HAH! more like a joke it'll ever be. Cause deep down, I know he'll never be mine and we can never be together cause he likes someone else.
Sometimes, I get the feeling that I'm not good enough for him, or Im just beneath him to even talk to him. Thats how he makes me feel. Although I feel nervous and awkward around him I get annoyed at how he makes me feel about myself. So thats called mixed feelings huh?
I guess its part of the growing pains. Gosh I hate this so much. When will the nightmare end? I guess no one knows .......
For starters, we say "love at first sight" is probrably because we are attracted to the other person's physical appearence. But as we get to know them, we end up getting bored f them, or that their mentality is just not like ours. So really, do we want to waste our time with this sort of tragedy? In the end, we'll just end up getting hurt.
So a few years back, I saw this guy lets call him A. He looked hot, attractive, interesting sensitive and funny, Notice that I used "looked". That cause I didnt get to know him yet. Just a simple introduction thats all we had. But recently due to some projects going on we were put together in the same team.From there I started to get to know him and in truth, he's a nice fellow, caring and such but he just isn't my cup of tea. Just the type of guy I would never go for.
See there? Thats how dangerous it would have been if I went for love at first sight. I would just end up in regrets and misery. Sometimes, it doesnt take much to get to know a person before you decide things about them. After all they did say NEVER judge a Book by its Cover.
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