I came across this guy, (sure it always starts like that eh?) who practically swept me off my feet in just one night whereby it was a date with minimal mistakes with all the gentlemanly gestures and princess treatment,SURE. It felt magically romantic until at least the next 24 hours where he starts being douchie.
He was so keen in making it flawless I actually felt uneasy.. Cause it's like sometimes when things are too perfect they hardly seem real. It's not like I'm whining or anything, or maybe I am so what. The point is that, Its the imperfections that makes the memories last, not the perfect straight out of a dating manual date. Even a retard could do that. I hoped that well he would at least continue the conversation after that dinner but it rather seems like he's trying to play hard to get. Well I'm a girl and I sure as hell will not be wasting my efforts endlessly pining for you. I'm sorry. So it was hard getting over him even though I've tried getting over him so many times. It almost feels as if I know how to get over him more than I know about him.
So this my lovelies are an example of the so called fairytale : they make you pine for them, looking like an idiot while they are probably out brainstorming to capture more hearts.
Then you have the real kind of guy: He likes you. And sure he tries to use his subtle ways to let you know but there's no games in it. Just simple and sweet. His friends are always there to cheer him on and you just know it that well secretly they are finding ways to help him woo you as well. He doesn't try so hard to impress. He does but, it's not like a complete different identity type of thing. He's there always ready to help, offer advices , and he lays his cards out on the table. No secrets. No hanky panky. And definitely no mysteries.
Then you have the real kind of guy: He likes you. And sure he tries to use his subtle ways to let you know but there's no games in it. Just simple and sweet. His friends are always there to cheer him on and you just know it that well secretly they are finding ways to help him woo you as well. He doesn't try so hard to impress. He does but, it's not like a complete different identity type of thing. He's there always ready to help, offer advices , and he lays his cards out on the table. No secrets. No hanky panky. And definitely no mysteries.
Disney has been doing this kinda guys a lot of discredit. I mean this is the kind of guy I want. And he definitely sounds like prince material to me.
I want a guy whos not more in love in his self than in his life. Like why can't guys these days be less vain and more modest ?! Rather than being so full of themselves they end up becoming douches. I wan a real guy. You hear that universe? No more stuffy excessively wannabe romantics. Its just urghhghhhhh
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