Lets Talk Acessories....

As you well know, I usually talk in metaphores. Although yes it gets confusing and annoying, theres a secret joy in it that makes me feel happy. Especially when I use a metaphore for something and only the person who truly gets it will understand. Its more like the "magic word" for me to know that Im actually talking to someone who gets me.



So about acessories.
Have you ever wondered why young adult male of about 16 year olds and above up to 25 get into a relationship? Well I have. And most of the time, hate to break it to you girls, it's just due to peer pressure.
You see, every guy is considered "manly" or "Macho" when they have a girl by their side. Thats what society feeds them. And in this growing process, most boys want to enter maturity and to look matured, they will just randomly get a girl. Like picking up sundries from the supermarket.

Im not trying to be a feminist here, but honestly, guys these days get into relationships just so they would fit into the crowd. Even before they are emotionally ready for commitment. In doing so, have you ever wondered about the after effects or how the girl would feel? No you didnt. No thanks to your idiotic raging hormones.

And the worst part, when A guy post pictures of him and his latest "Girl" people start congratulating him like its an achievement. And he would enjoy all the attention he gets from his other male friends by showing off his girl. Not only is it sad, it makes the girl look like a piece of meat. And Do you even have feelings for her at all? Its pretty cruel.

Conclusion: Guys , Girls, please, only get into a relationship with someone when you feel comfortable with them, you cant stop thinking about them or simply cause they mean a lot to you. Dont do it for the sake of fitting in or looking cool. In the end you would be the one at a greater loss. Relationships are made to be special, not like something you would have for your amusement and throw it away. Asks yourself this should you ever "think" you found the one : Will he'she be there for me even when I look / smell/ old and ugly or messy. Will they care for me when Im sick or sad or leave everything behind just to cheer me? Can I be myself with that someone without any masks or pretantious sophistication? Then there you have it, Your very own answer.